Ignorance.Is.Bliss

~my 'Other' side~

Suasana Majlis Pertunangan Ajak & Linda

finally ajak gave me his engagement photos the other day upon my request. so here they are.

photo session with mom, dad, dad-in-law, mom-in-law, son, daughter, brother-in-law and menantu(s)..


linda and bakal mother-in-law. kontrol nerves..


hantaran dari ajak and the geng.


hantaran dari linda and co.


according from the chief of police, the situation during the ceremony was under control. as above photo evidence suggest it, no outwards incident happened. except for minor trouble by ajak's nephew and niece but nothing serious. overall everything was going smoothly. - reuters



Earth Hour 2009

What the hell was it all about?

well if you want to make a difference, it’s just a simple flick of a switch.


once upon a time, it all began with earth hour 2007. in sydney australia, on the last saturday in march 2007 2.2 million people turned off their lights. why? to show their support for a global mandate for action on climate change.


only a year later in 2008 and this event had become a global movement with up to 50 million people across 35 countries participating. also as symbols of hope for a cause that grows more urgent by the hour.(i read it somewhere in the internet)


so people across the world will turn off their lights and join together in creating the vital conversation about the future of our precious planet.

so during the darkness what should we do? so either you do nothing or you do "something" la. kan dah gelap tuh. buat la "aktiviti" sendiri. lagi mau tanya ka? aiyo..


as a citizen of mother earth, i proudly claimed that i also joined millions of other earth inhibitor yesterday in turning off the lights.

by going to a kenduri kawen after noon. then lepak rumah ayie. then lepak kat mamak.. hehehe.. (because i don't know what to do without electricity for 1 hour) arrived home around nearly 10pm.

even my housemate went out, somewhere. so when no one was at home, no lights were turn on. get it?.. even my family also participated in this noble cause (my mom told me last night). only the tv was on she said. ok la tu kan. even her neighbour support the campaign.

well done humans. cheers!

My Cousin's Akad Nikah

these are the photos of nor (my cousin) after the akad nikah ceremony. my other cousin send it to my mom and my mom send it to me.

guest where her husband came from?.. turkey. yup.. that far..

this world is shrinking don't you think?.. love is interracial and international nowadays.

the wedding reception will be held in august and my parent will attend it too (because i helped bought the flight ticket but using my dad's mastercard).

congratulations!

nor and husband and her mother.

with my uncle and his family.



Makan-makan Kat Rumah Ayie

sorry lah ayie. i know it was kind of late mentioning about the makan-makan at your house. even though it was like a few month back already. you know me.

[click picture to enlarge and read what i wrote.. hehe..]

so here are those moments that i managed to snapped.

the food was delicious bro. and abundant too. father in-law plak yang masak tuh. ape punya menantu. malu la wei.. hehehe.. kalau aku lah kan, essoook nye terus amik kelas belajar masak. muahaha!!...

lek bro. joking-joking eh..

kak anis ada, pak rem, ijad & awek ada. even azuan & wife & baby pun ade.

she is cute isn't she.

a baby girl by the name of melissa nur raisya was born to a proud parent of azuan and mimie. they live just a stone throw away from ayie's house. kira satu taman gak ar.

it was actually a house warming dinner. plus minus. they just moved in to the rented house so they did a sort of mini kenduri.

you know what, it was so worth it. i mean the house. untung betol. why? because it is a double-storey terrace house. with 4 bedrooms and 3 bathrooms. a huge living room. only like 15-20 minutes from kl. and the best part is, the rent is only rm450 per month! that's right. i was like, "are you serious? you have to be kidding me?" at first. well, you've got to see it to believe it.

actually it was like my idea of sort. and thanks to azuan also (he rented at the area first). because when he told me his house rent was only rm450/month i immediately told ayie (because he was looking for a house at that time).

with that price in kl? i think the best you can get is a flat with dirty elevator and lots and lots of foreigners (like my house.. hehe..).



Ulang Tahun Namleys

happy anniversary.


Jom Pergi Seremban

you know what, even though seremban is like a stone throw away from klang valley (i mean not that too far la kan) i've never been to that city. infact the only place i have been to in negeri sembilan is port dickson. never the capital.

well, i'm proud to say, finally.. hehe.. but we were not there to jalan-jalan cari makan la. and its for like a few hours only-plus sesat. yup.. me and my two friends were in seremban for some business matter.

then we went back to kl and went to bukit bintang. also business matter. so alang-alang dah sampai, we did some jalan-jalan tengok orang.. hehe..

it has also been a while since i melawat bukit bintang. and i think i've stepped inside the pavillion shop mall for like only the 3rd time since.. as many years!.

even though the place is superbly magnificent but as a middle class malaysian citizen, the only thing i could afford is window shopping. and maybe some j.co donuts at best.

ijad & pak rem were caugh red-handed starring at a chikas walking past us-with her boyfriend.



Abdul Razak Bertunang!

yey!.. finally.. ajak, i'm proud of you man!.. you are a step closer to marriage-hood dawg.

one more friend taking the next step. and today it was ajak's turn. his fiancee is also a friend of mine. ajak said maybe they will reside in kl.

"adil lah", ajak said. why? because ajak is from johor while linda is from kedah. "so dok kl je senang", ajak continued.

anyway, this is just a small step guys. much much more are waiting come december (what i was told).

so anyway, congratulation to both of you.

cheers!

Selamat Hari Jadi Kak Ayu


i have 2 kakak lah. and today is kak ayu's birthday!

ok. lets get it straight here. kak har's birthday was on 17th feb. dad's was on 19th march while kak ayu's birthday is today, 21th march.

so as you can see here, 3 birthdays in 2 month! boleh kering kontang wallet nih. all in the family je. yang wajib. that doesn't count friends lagi. mampoh kawe..

kak ayu with son, aish. now big olredi. this photos was taken when he's still few month old.

as usual i would like to wish my beloved sis a merry happy birthday!.. hehe.. semoga panjang umur dan di murah murah murah kan rezeki. i always pray for your happiness, you and your family.

she is also expecting her second child! aish will have a sis/bro (dunno yet) to bully la.. hehe..

anyway, love you so much and my prayers will always be with you.


Selamat Hari Jadi Hj Adu Sarif


gosh.. today is my dad's birthday. his 60th. he may be old but he is always young at heart!

i'm one of those lucky sons in this world that have one of the most wonderful dad ever. i'm sure all of you out there must have some kind of an idol that you look up to. tun mahathir, pak lah, obama, bush, sudirman, maikel jeksen, mandela, ghandi etc bla bla bla.. i'm sure you all have your own reasons.

but my idol and hero will and always be my father.

janji rock! - this photo was taken a few years back after completing the haj.
(thus explaining the botak thing.)


a very hardworking lad. sometimes i felt like he never stopped working! night and day. just for the sake of his family. and i just can't remember the last time he rotan me!.. hahaha..

on this special occasion i would like to wish my dad a very happy birthday. i want to let you know that i wouldn't want any other dad other than you and because you are the best dad in the whole wide web.. err.. world!

love you so much dad..

Nukilan Dari Rembulan

as i was surfing the net i came across a really interesting post from a blogger named Rembulan and from a blog called Antropologi Cinta.

she's brilliant man. and i thought, damn she has it all figured out. the best advise i've heard or read so far.

for those broken hearted people out there, you won't regret reading this. read on.


Kehilanganku...

Tersentuh..

Sejak berpisah dgn org yg aku kasihi..aku byk pelajari erti hidup yg amat bermakna dlm hidup aku..aku yakin..ada antara kamu yg merasai lebih dari apa yg aku fahami hari ini..tentang perasaan kasih yg tidak ternilai dgn kata2..tentang erti berkongsi tanpa mengira itu dan ini..tentang ketabahan menghadapi ujian setiap hari..tentang menerima setiap perkara yg berlaku ada maksud yg kita tidak ketahui sepenuhnya..(tentang..kekalahan meneruskan cinta yg disemai tanpa rasa jemu…)

Jangan takut…

Cinta masih ada utk kita…

Mungkin bukan hari ini..mungkin bukan tahun ini..walau bila pun masanya..cinta yg bakal hadir utk kita..akan lebih hebat dari yg itu…

Cekal..?

setiap insan yg ingin bangkit semula akan menjadi lebih hebat daripada org2 yg tidak pernah merasai kepayahan..(betul x..?)jadi..jgn bimbang..,)

Apa yg akan jadi hari esok..?

Cubalah hidup tanpa gurauan dari dia..Cubalah menerima kesepian tanpa kehadiran dia..Cuba terima dia bkn milik kamu selama2 nya..Tekadkan dlm hati..kita mampu meneruskan hidup tanpa dia..Hidup ini perlukan kamu utk meneruskan perjalanannya..

Kamu perlu tabah demi hati kamu sendiri…cubalah........

Sepi..?

Aku mengerti..payahnya berpura2 senyum demi yg lain…apapun kamu sedar..masih ada jiwa yg lain perlu kamu jagai..jiwa yg mengambil berat tentang kamu..jgn gentar bila hati x tertanggung kehibaan yg dirasai..kita insan biasa..tiada apa yg perlu dimalukan jika menangisi apa yg terjadi..Cuma..jgn hilangkan siapa kamu yg sebenar…kesepian akan semakin pudar daripada membayangi diri kamu sedikit demi sedikit..

Cemburu..?

tipu jika tiada rasa cemburu bila melihat pasangan yg lain…kenangan yg ada…semuanya seolah2 menghukum kita…kerana mencintai seseorang…(tidak…)itu bukan hukuman utk melemahkan..itulah kekuatan yg diberikan utk kita..kemanisan tidak akan kekal..namun rasanya tetap akan diingati..rasa itulah hadiah utk kita…hadiah yg membuktikan kita berani menjalinkan suatu perkara yg luarbiasa..(cinta..) tiada beza kamu dgn pasangan itu sahabatku…kita sama saja..kita bertemu...dan kita dipisahkan...aku yakin kamu faham maksud ku ini...ingat..
'kehilangan tidak akan kekal utk kita...namun kamu perlu tahu..bersama...tidak menentukan ia akan tetap disitu..'
Ditulis oleh Rembulan

call me sissy, call me fags, call me whatever you want. but i totally agree with her.

totally brilliant dawg.

Ferarri Maranello


nice car eh?.. wrooooong!!.. this is a fucking awesome car dude! look at this baby. damn hot!..
me and chi'gu din spotted this baby while we were wasting our time at one utama last week.


and there she was. looking hot and sexy amid all those attention, camera flashes, touching, rubbing, and imagining.. etc. she looked unperturbed and i think she enjoyed it even more. damn lucky car. i'm a pervert! arrrghhh!...

ops.. my bad. it's a super car. mind you.

look at those big round shinny beautiful rim.. grrr..


look at it. yes.
touch it. yes.
own it. why not. err.. maybe its possible. nothing is impossible right?.. wrong again.

not in a million years dowg.. hahaha..

anyway, damn this car is hot.

Selamat Pengantin Baru - Shamsudin & Ruzita


to my good friend, chi'gu din, as i fondly call him. congratulations on your wedding today. sorry couldn't be there today on the special occasion. you know la kan. but still i'm happy for you.

i wish you all the very best in marriage life. there will be ups and downs la ofcourse but i believe both of you will do fine.

sorry for the pic bro because this is the only pic i've got with both of you in it. i'll update it later when i got the wedding pic from you, k.

so save journey back to kl tomorrow.

why so early some might wonder? because he has an exam on thursday!.. what to do kan bro. hehehe..

nevertheless, wish you and your bride selamat pengantin baru. i pray that you'll both have a wonderful life ahead of you and be a good chi'gu eh.

kalau nakal sangat ko jangan rotan, ko sumbat je dalam stor. muahahah!..
just kidding bro.

till next time. adios!

Seksa

excruciating.

tortured.

bleak.

end?

Confused?

To love is to suffer.
To avoid suffering one must not love.
But then one suffers from not loving.

Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer.
To suffer is to suffer.
To be happy is to love.
To be happy then is to suffer.
But suffering makes one unhappy.

Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness.

So.. which one is it?!..

To love or to suffer?..

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