Sepatutnya Tak Boleh.. Tapi Ada Je?..

yesterday while i was traveling, my mind wonders a bit.

then it hit me.

Rasulullah s.a.w once said:

“Seorang wanita itu dinikahi kerana empat; kerana hartanya, kerana keturunannya, kerana kecantikkannya dan kerana agamanya. Maka hendaklah kamu mengutamakan yang beragama, nescaya kamu berbahagia.” http://hadith.al-islam.com, Sahih Muslim, #2661

then you must've heard the term,

"perempuan baik untuk lelaki baik" and vice versa.

so it's clear then. if you are a bad person you'll get a bad person too la kan.

but.. what if that person is not what he was before? what if he's a change person and he work very hard to be a good person?.. then what?

what happened if this change person is attracted to a good person? and he now realized that the person he attracted to can guide him to be a more better person. especially in the religious side. he believe this person can help him to be a better muslim. so, my question is, can he 'get' that good person?

what i'm trying to say is he's attracted to her, one of the reason is, kerana agamanya.

Nabi suruh cari pasangan kerana agamanya. he found her but the problem is he's not a 'good' person before. so how can a with a bad track record cari pasangan kerana agama because konfem lah tak dapat? yes?

why? because it refers back too the second statement. in another words, it means "perempuan baik BUKAN untuk lelaki tak baik". so a bad person can NOT pick a religiously-savvy couple because even if he wants too.. he just can't have, won't get them.. yes?

but why?..

so what can he do then?..

well, he just pray everyday in the hope that God forgive his sins.. past, present, future..